As I’m sitting here waiting for Haven Conference tickets to go on sale in a few minutes, I’m remembering what I did right and what I did wrong to prepare for Haven last year. Here are our helpful tips if you ever decide to go to one!
1. Take business cards. If you have a blog and you show up without business cards or something with your blog name on it, just forget it! People were trading business cards like they were gold last year. Now, I was the only one in our group who took business cards – I was the only one with a really active blog at that time – and I passed out several and received several. One helpful hint might be to take a hole punch and a binder ring and keep them together that way – I will definitely do that this time. This year we will be taking cards for RCHOTX, you can bet on that!
2. Don’t decide to start a new blog WHILE you are at a blog conference! You’re looking at our brainchild from Haven right here. I had good intentions to keep using my Lazy Wife blog as well as this one, but that hasn’t really worked out – so now all of those people who took my business card are being sent to a blog that hasn’t been updated in months! Oops. While you may be gung-ho about a new blog when you’re talking about starting one, actually doing it is a whole different animal. Bloggin’ ain’t easy.
3. Don’t let one person ruin your conference experience. I learned that some people are really nice and excited to meet you until someone better comes along. There was one blogger that a couple of us were excited to talk to and hang out with (and we thought she felt the same way), and she just completely dissed us because (in my opinion) we weren’t “big” enough. To this day, I’m still annoyed with her and will probably avoid her this time, since I’m sure she will be attending. It’s unfortunate that some people are in this for the publicity and name-dropping – that’s not why we are in this. Her strategy got her pretty far this year, so I guess it paid off for her. However, she lost a faithful blog reader in me. I won’t say she ruined the conference for me, but she definitely left a bad taste in my mouth about it. There IS a way to network with the “big guys” and still be nice to the peons (me).
4. Socializing/networking. This one was tough for me. I was with a group of 6, and 4 didn’t really care about the blogging part of the conference. I would have liked to meet more people, but I also wanted to spend time with the people I came with. It didn’t help that the hotel ballroom that the “social events” were held in was teeny tiny and it was more than a bit warm with all those people! Add that to the fact that I am more than a little bit claustrophobic and it makes for a bad scene. This year, I will be attending with only 1 or 2 other housewives, and we are all interested in networking/blogging, so maybe it will be different this time.
5. Pick your sessions ahead of time and have a strategy. We did do this, and it worked out great. Because there were so many of us (6), we basically got every session that we were interested in covered. I did not attend any of the blogging sessions, because I was more interested in the DIY aspect. This year, though, I think I will be more interested in the blogging sessions and will probably try to do a little of both. I learned so much last year, and I intend to learn even more this year, now that I know what I’m doing with the blog thing!
6. Prepare to ship stuff home. I sent a 33 pound box home from last year’s conference. Let me just tell you, these conferences give away a LOT of stuff. There is no way I could have fit everything in an empty bag to take home with me – just plan on spending the bucks to ship it. I can tell you which post office in Atlanta to avoid if you need me to
7. Enjoy yourself. We ate dinner at different places every night (with Haven, you’re on your own with dinner) and loved them. We weren’t afraid to leave the hotel, and we found some great places! Some sponsors will “host” dinners during blog conferences, but they are invite-only. I am not planning on being invited to any of those, but who knows?! I will certainly go if I am! We did a little shopping and sightseeing while we were there as well. We will rent a car again this year and do some exploring, because Atlanta is a pretty neat city.
8. Dress comfortable, but cute. Everyone there was dressed nicely – not fancy, but put together. I will definitely be saving some extra money to buy some nicer clothes for the conference. Wear comfortable shoes, but not flip flops. Too many people there, too many power tools laying around. You don’t want to lose a toe!
Well, the three of us got our tickets (me, Tarah, and Sars) – Tarah and I were able to get the early bird discounted ticket (saved $25!) and those 50 sold out in under a minute! I feel quite sure the rest will sell out pretty quickly… 50% of your Real {Cheap} Housewives of Texas will be hitting up Atlanta come August 1!